Tell us one thing you hope people say about you.
I hope people say that I made them feel seen, supported and safe being themselves, even in a world that often feels rushed, noisy and insensitive.
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Today people are overwhelmed with information, stress and uncertainty, so anyone who offers emotional safety and understanding stands out as genuinely valuable.
Qualities like empathy, emotional intelligence and steady support are now seen as real strengths, not just “soft” traits, both online and offline.
I want people to feel that when they came to me, they were heard without judgment and remembered as humans, not just as names on a screen.
I hope people remember about me, that I valued real presence more than perfect timing or polite planning.
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I miss the days when love meant showing up at someone’s door, not just sending a message from far away.
There was a time when the people who truly cared were not just names in a contact list, but warm, living presences who showed up without being asked.
The ones who would come home for the smallest reason, sit with you for a few minutes, share tea, laughter, or even silence — many of them are gone now.
The few who are still alive seem a little lost; they don’t really know how to reach out in this new world where everything has to be “planned” first.
What hurts even more is that even when they want to meet, talk, or spend time together, there is no one who can fully reciprocate those emotions.
People have stopped visiting each other the way they used to, and every meeting now needs a prior message, a confirmation, an agreement that it’s “convenient.” Somewhere, the natural warmth of just dropping in has faded.
We used to simply gate crash my uncle’s house and be genuinely, joyfully welcomed. No one asked, “Why didn’t you inform us?” Doors opened with smiles, not with questions.
Today, the doors are still there, but the ease is gone. If people say one day that I tried to keep that old warmth alive — that I was someone you could visit without permission and still feel at home — that will be enough for me.
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